- Pregnancy & Childbirth
- Attachment Parenting
- Family Nutrition
- Family Wellness
1. Q. How much weight gain is healthy?
A. The currently recommended healthy weight gain is 25 to 35 pounds. Where you fit into this range depends on two factors—your body type and whether you start your pregnancy under, over, or close to your ideal weight Tall and lean women (ectomorphs) tend to gain less, short and pear-shaped women (endomorphs) tend to gain the most, and women of average build (mesomorphs) gain somewhere in the middle of the 25 to 35-pound range. If you are underweight at the beginning of pregnancy, you may need to gain more. If you are overweight, you may need to gain less. Every pregnant woman needs a fat reserve—to ensure there will always be a steady supply of calories available to baby in case she under eats for a day or two. This fat reserve supplies energy for milk making after baby is born. Keep in mind that weight charts for growing mothers, like those for growing babies, present ranges and averages. It doesn't mean you are unhealthy if you don't fit in the right slot on the chart. Here are some guidelines:
2. Q. How fast should I put on weight?
A. The healthy rate of weight gain should be:
3. Q. I was so sick during the first few months that I could hardly keep food down and did not gain weight. Did I harm my baby?
A. No. Don't worry. It's the rare mother who eats by the balanced book of nutrition during the nausea-prone first trimester. Most women enter pregnancy with enough nutritional reserves to provide for mother and baby, even if mother eats barely anything during those early food-aversion months. Most mothers also gain the most weight during the second-trimester, and second-trimester eating habits have the most influence on baby's eventual birth weight.
4. Q. My pregnant friend is on a diet because she heard it's easier to deliver a smaller baby. Is this true?
A. No, she is wrong. First it's a dangerous myth that smaller babies are usually easier to deliver. Second, being smaller because of being nutritionally deprived is not a fate any mother would wish for her baby. Nutritionally deprived babies (low-birthweight infants) have a higher risk of newborn complications and delayed growth and development. Studies show an undernourished mother is more likely to deliver a baby who is also undernourished. A nutritionally deprived baby not only will have narrow shoulders, all the baby's organs will be compromised.
5. Q. I want to get back to my preprenancy figure as soon as possible after birth. What can I do during pregnancy to make this happen?
A. How quickly you get your figure back depends not only on how well you care for this body during pregnancy, but also on the body habits you brought into the pregnancy. If you exercise regularly and eat wisely before and during your pregnancy, you are likely to reclaim the figure you want more quickly than if you brought a poorly toned and undernourished body to the birth. If you gain more fat than you and your baby need, it will take you longer after the birth to lose the excess. You will lose around half the weight gained when you deliver your baby (baby, amniotic fluid, and placenta). During the first few weeks postpartum, you will lose a few more pounds of excess fluid. You will continue to shed pounds if you continue to eat carefully and exercise regularly. Breastfeeding may help take off some of those pounds between three to six months postpartum, when milk production is at its highest. During the first nine months postpartum, you will have around 5 to 10 pounds to "work" off. Realistically, it takes around nine months to take off whatever you put on during pregnancy. Many women who eat right and exercise still maintain a few extra pounds after giving birth and become more full-figured as a mother.
6. Q. I'm carrying twins? How much weight is healthy to gain?
A. Sometimes a greater-than-average weight gain is the first clue that you are carrying more than one baby. To all the guidelines for ideal weight gain, add another 10 pounds for twins, more for additional multiples.
7. Q. Why must I gain so much weight during pregnancy? Where does the extra weight go?
A. Extra weight goes to your baby, the extra blood volume, amniotic fluid, uterus, placenta, breast tissue, and "reserve," in case of illness or "hard times."
8. Q. Do I have to be a health food nut, calorie counter and exercise freak to be a good mother?
A. NO! To be a healthy mother, most women become amateur nutritionists. But the good news is that there is very little you need to do differently during pregnancy—you just do a "little" more or less. Pregnancy convinces many women to improve their style of eating and living and to get their whole family on a healthier track.
9. Q. I began my pregnancy more than 20 pounds overweight. Can't I safely diet during pregnancy without harming my baby?
A. Yes and no. You can "diet" in the sense of changing your eating habits for the better, leaning to eat healthy. But you should not diet to lose weight. An undernourished baby has a higher risk of complications at birth and of delayed growth and development. Here are some safe ways to stay healthy: